WHY
BE ANXIOUS?
Why be anxious? This is a very simple
but profound question. It appears that this life is built upon anxiety. As soon
as one problem is resolved another arises in its place. There is a never ending
cycle of conflict and resolution. We all live fast-paced lifestyles that demand
quick results and, when they are not forthcoming, frustration abounds. This leads to anxiety. I feel we all can
relate to this feeling: the tightening of the stomach, headaches, quick
tempers, and intolerance for even the smallest of things. This occurs so often
that it has become an accepted part of life. The danger that it actually
presents is cloaked in this complacency. What is actually happening through
these actions is the building of a wall: a wall between us and God. During the
mass, after the Our Father is recited, the priest recites a particular prayer,
asking God to relieve us from all anxiety. The presence of this prayer
emphasizes how important it is to be unburdened from these feelings because
they are so dangerous.
Try to recall the last time we felt
anxious. It is fair to assume that the presence of God was far from our
thoughts; our spirituality impeded. There was a disconnect that prevented us
from being consoled by Him Our thoughts and our physical reaction to them actually
pushed God away from us and that is a very dangerous place to be. Separating
ourselves from God, for whatever reason, allows Satan to creep in and enriches
the soil of our souls for sin to grow. We become disordered in our thoughts and
feelings. We put ourselves in a dangerous place. We are isolated and vulnerable
to attack. In this state, we further alienate ourselves by blaming God for this
condition; enabling ourselves to become even angrier at our state of affairs.
Jesus knows our weaknesses and cries for
us, wanting to bring us comfort and love. Yet we struggle against this simple
solution of letting go. We need to stop this battle and surrender completely.
Know that Jesus is Lord and he does in fact have all the solutions. The power
of prayer can overcome all of this negativity and bring our relationship with
Him into a perfect state where we can actually see how simple the solutions
really are. We created the circumstances of our misery in the first place.
Jesus tells us there is no need to feel this way. Why dwell on the mere
physical aspects of our existence and ignore that which is the eternal? As we are told in the Gospel Reading today,
we need to focus on Jesus Christ and our eternal existence with him. When we
contemplate Jesus and ourselves in these terms, then the material anxieties
which can easily become our main focus, are revealed as the minor things that
they really are in comparison to Jesus who is everything.
Celebrating the First Sunday of Advent
offers a perfect opportunity for us to realize just this. As the first candle
is lit, we are asked to reflect on our relationship with Jesus and to repair
the damage that we have done in our relationship through repentance: we are
asked to confront our sins, ask for forgiveness, and make a commitment to
strengthen our relationship with Him who offers us eternal salvation. We are
encouraged to push our anxieties away to clear a path towards Jesus who is
waiting for us with open arms. Instead of anxiety there should be joyful
expectation about a life with Jesus Christ: a wonderful life rich in
celebration and exultation. Smile because Jesus loves you and when you know
that you are loved then you can spread that very same love throughout the
world.
This world was created out of love and
when we react to that love we can then accept everything that comes our way
knowing that, in the end, Jesus would never allow that which may cause us
anxiety to overcome us.
Deacon Tom